Appeals Court: Parents Have No Right To Be Told When Their Child ‘Socially Transitions’ Sex In School
The school’s transgender protocols were “curricular and administrative” decisions over which the parents had no say

In a long-awaited decision, the First Circuit Court of Appeals has ruled the parents of an 11-year old girl had no right to be notified when she “socially transitioned” to another sex in school. The court held the school’s non-disclosure policy was necessary to promote a “safe and inclusive” environment for all of its students.
Stephen Foote and Marissa Silvestri brought their lawsuit against the Ludlow, Massachusetts school committee in 2022 after they learned from one of its teachers that their sixth-grade daughter had secretly transitioned to “genderqueer.” We covered the case in detail here.
If not for that one brave teacher—later fired for coming forward—according to the court filings, the parents might never have known: Under the school’s policy, when a student asks to be called by a new name and pronouns of a different sex, staff members must keep it a secret from the parents, unless they have the student’s consent.
The parents claimed that withholding information about their child’s gender identity violated their constitutional rights to raise and make medical and mental-health care decisions for her.
U.S. District Court Judge Mark G. Mastroianni dismissed their lawsuit in December 2022. They appealed to the First Circuit, and in September 2023 the court heard oral arguments that we covered here.
Finally last week, the First Circuit affirmed the lower court’s dismissal, in a per curiam (jointly issued) decision by three judges—one appointed by Obama and two by Biden.
The school’s secret use of gender-affirming pronouns or a gender-affirming name was not a “medical” treatment, the court held, rejecting the parents’ claim. “Using the [s]tudent’s chosen name and pronouns,” they wrote, is “something people routinely do with one another, and which requires no special training, skill, medication, or technology.”
But the parents didn’t see anything “routine” about the school helping their child turn “genderqueer” behind their backs. They objected to teachers talking in private with their child to explore and experiment with “alternative or discordant gender identities” and to facilitate their child’s gender-affirming social transitioning. They also objected to the school counselor allowing her to use the bathroom of her choice. And they objected when the former school librarian asked the students to state their pronouns as part of an assignment.
According to the court, the parents should trust the school’s experts—and stop sticking their noses where they don’t belong. The measures the parents objected to were “curricular and administrative” decisions over which they had no say: “Our pluralistic society” assigns them to “the expertise of school officials, charged with the responsibility of educating children.”
After all, it wasn’t as if the children were being forced into switching sexes: “[P]roviding educational resources about LGBTQ-related issues to a child who has shown interest imposes no more compulsion to identify as genderqueer than providing a book about brick laying could coerce a student into becoming a mason,” the judges wrote.
But the court’s characterization of gender indoctrination is disingenuous—it’s not just like any other topic taught in school. From the very beginning of their decision, the judges misrepresent the true nature of secret social transitioning, stating: “Courts nationwide have faced all manner of important litigation involving matters of gender identity and gender expression, including use of folks’ preferred pronouns. Today’s case falls under that broad header,” they say.
In fact, it does not. The difference in this case, of course, is that the “folks” are children—here and invariably, emotionally vulnerable children with a host of mental health problems. The record showed the Ludlow school wasn’t merely keeping secrets from the parents about their child. They were proactively socially transitioning the children entrusted to them, as we wrote in the original post here:
The Ludlow school staff played an active role in socially transitioning students to other genders, the parents allege. [Complaint par. 58] The chief instigator was the former school librarian: She advertised her own “nonbinary” status to the school community and told students not to refer to one another as “boys” and “girls.” She also met one-on-one with both their son and daughter, the parents say in the complaint, “on multiple occasions to discuss alternative genders, affirm the children’s choices of alternative names, and provide encouragement for their assertion of a transgender identity”—all without their knowledge or consent. [Complaint, par. 90]
We’ve covered the ongoing controversy over secret social transitioning in public schools in the posts collected here, and they all make one thing clear: Secret social transitioning—starting with using students’ preferred names and pronouns—puts the child on the path to permanent, life-altering medical transitioning. And still, school districts like Ludlow insist on keeping parents in the dark to protect their students’ “safety.”
Ludlow may yet be forced to rescind its policy—which was unwritten and based on non-binding state guidance in the first place. On January 29, the President ordered the Department of Education, along with other agencies, to develop an “Ending Indoctrination Strategy” by late April. The Executive Order explicitly targets secret social transitioning of a minor student—“including through school staff or teachers or through deliberately concealing the minor’s social transition from the minor’s parents”—with the threat of losing federal funding. That is, at least until the judiciary gets its hands on that executive mandate to protect parents’ rights.
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Have Americans ever hung judges, black robe and all?
There’s a first time for everything.
Pitchforks and torches ?
Or tar and feathers?
Hell, just bring it all.
It would bring new meaning to the phrase “hangin’ judge”. And, it is hanged, not hung.
‘Meat is hung, men are hanged.’
Accord, Shakespeare, Twelfth Night I:5-
FOOL: Let her hang me. He that is well hanged in this world needs to fear no colors.
Actually, some men are well hung. They don’t usually require social transitioning.
Perhaps the judges should be transitioned so they could get a first hand appreciation for the consequences of their decision.
I’m so glad for this ruling. Now I can start allowing students in my class to convert secretly to Christianity!!
Baptism classes will start on Monday.
This is absolutely wrong. Thank God our appeals court is the 5th, whom only seem to be the sanest of the appeals circuit.
This Court’s action is approaching sinful.
It overcame sinful and is heading for the home stretch to Perdition.
Not old enough to join the military, see an R-rated movie, drink alcohol, sue or be sued, but old enough to mess with their sexuality and make drastic, permanent changes affecting their entire lives.
Makes perfect sense.
It’s just a policy decision, not a Constitutional right. The court might even think it’s stupid but that’s not the question. Vote for your school board, to fix it.
Are you trying to imply that children should have a constitutional right to keep something that momentous from their parents?
No, he’s arguing that schools have a right to transition your children behind your back, because that’s what’s really going on.
The public schools have absolutely NO RIGHT to keep anything about the child secret from the parents. Further, the insane claim that 12 year olds – even 16 or 17 year olds – must give “consent” for the parents to know such information is about as loony and as insane as it gets. THose kids cannot give consent, at all.
This is anything but a “policy decision”. This is a crime of the worst sort being carried out by the school board, school administrators, and teachers. They ALL need to be dragged away in handcuffs and orange jumpsuits. These are sick, sick people and they are perpetrating awful mass crimes on the children of the community. They are some of the worst people any society could ever be cursed with.
Welcome to the Post-Constitutional era of Might Makes Right. As long as progressive School Boards have the muscle of local law enforcement and the Courts to draw on then they will do as they damn well please with our children.
“Vote for your school board, to fix it.”
This statement is not just stupid, it’s the kind of thing only a fool would suggest – which is 1,000 times worse.
Does any sentient being think this is an appropriate way to deal with this kind of child abuse?
Yes, the same kind of fool who would call people mourning Shiri Bibas & her sons HY”D a competing mob comparable to the terrorists who kidnapped & murdered them. Which RHardin has done.
So encouraging children to live delusional lives is part of “curricular and administrative” decisions?
Replacing the School Board can be done (we did it), but it is a long term process and requires constant vigilance to keep it on the straight and narrow,
A little late for that.
“[P]roviding educational resources about LGBTQ-related issues to a child who has shown interest imposes no more compulsion to identify as genderqueer than providing a book about brick laying could coerce a student into becoming a mason,” the judges wrote.”
Somebody tell me that I really did not read something so idiotic coming from the pen of supposed educated persons. Not just educated but qualified to levy judgment in complicated legal questions.
The very reason for exposing a student/child to anything be at brick laying, fossil collecting, American history, pornographic videos, auto repair is in THE HOPE IT WILL TRIGGER THE STUDENT’S INTEREST SO HE OR SHE WILL WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THE SUBJECT AND MAY BE EVEN PURSUE IT IN THEIR LATER YEARS!!!
It may be hard for these maroons to grasp but education was not meant to be passive but pursued. It was not meant to end when the classroom door shut. So yes exposing a child the gender-queer is meant to make them more open to the concept with the goal of it becoming even more important in their lives.
May G-d sweep these judges up into Hell.
A possibly better prayer is, “May God destroy their ability to do evil.”
P]roviding educational resources about LGBTQ-related issues to a child who has shown interest imposes no more compulsion to identify as genderqueer than providing a book about brick laying could coerce a student into becoming a mason,” the judges wrote.” Can anyone here honestly tell me that same judge would rule that way if a teacher gave the child of atheist parents a bible? I’m sure the teacher would have a perfect defense by saying the child asked abour religion.
It’s called “grooming”.
What the f is genderqueer anyway??? And why would anyone think it’s cool???
When I attended college I began with a dual major in mathematics and physics. Then I switched to pre-med, and changed my major to chemistry. There is no elementary school teacher in the state of Illinois better qualified than me to teach my children math and science.
These teachers’ “expertise” is in “indoctrination” and “social engineering”.
Plus, you can eminently claim to be majorqueer.
If the school thinks the parents are a danger to the child, shouldn’t they contact law enforcement instead of keeping secrets?
The disgraceful, so-called “judges” sitting on the federal bench who rendered this decision should be transitioned into retirement.
I taught elementary school decades ago. I’m extremely grateful that I didn’t have to put up with this garbage. But I can still see faces of the fourth, fifth and sixth graders in those classrooms. They were not ready for this, then and aren’t now. We have so dumbed down curriculum Content, pushed ideas and behavior of an extremely low percentage of the human population and somehow decided the kids know better than their parents. As wrong as the first two are, the third, one is just stupid. God help us.
The court ruled the parents have no right to be told when their child sexually transitions to another sex at school.
I would think that before a court makes such a ruling, they would first have to rule that the schools have the authority to be sexually transitioning children in the first place.
When has there been a ruling by a court that public schools have the right to be doing that? Not just that parents have a right to know, but who gave schools the authority to be involved in that?
If schools can do that, the door is open for them to do lots of other stuff that has nothing to do with educating children.
To be fair the ruling was about ‘social transitioning’ NOT ‘medical transitioning’. IOW not about the school providing students with chemical puberty blockers or surgery but about reading material, using preferred pronouns and clothing.
That said…WTF? Even those are signals that the student has an issue that the Parents IMO must be informed of. If the school is concerned based on actual concrete evidence that the physical safety of the child would be compromised if the Parents are informed then call CPS but still notify the Parents of the child.
Oh, right, we’re not talking about puberty blockers or surgery. But I had read in a previous article on this case that the girl may have been using the boys’ bathroom, or changing her clothes in the boys’ locker room and they were hiding that from the parents.
From previous article: “I want parents to understand that if your daughter is using the boys’ bathroom, or your daughter is changing her clothes in the boys’ locker room, your school is going to hide that from you.”
Agreed, even expressing interest in reading material, preferred pronouns or clothing should be reported to Parents so they can do their duty of Parenting for their Child.
Link? I am seeing a lot of boys who want in the ladies room. Very few visa-versa.
It’s pretty rich having these demented perverts who are preying on the most vulnerable children in the worst way talking about the kids’ own parents being threats to their well-being. These teachers and administrators are among the worst sorts of sick criminals our society has to deal with. They are carrying out a MASSIVE sex crime against innocent children and they have the gall to try and justify it by accusing the parents of being threats to these kids??
These people deserve good, old Roman impalings, to be perfectly honest. They are the lowest of the low.
Why would they need permission? Why would they not be entitled to do that?
If Jenny comes to school one day and tells everyone “I don’t want to be called Jenny any more, call me Guinivere”, would anyone think they need the parents’ permission to call her by her preferred name?
So how is it different if she says “I don’t want to be called Jenny any more, call me Jimmy”?
Let’s try a different topic: Suppose a child show an interest in a religion different from the one her parents practice. Should the school inform the parents?! Is the librarian forbidden from letting her read books on the religion she’s interested in?
Now suppose the school isn’t just thinking it’s none of the parents’ business, but is concerned that the parents will react badly to the news? Suppose it’s Moslem parents and the kid is reading about Christianity? Suppose the kid comes to school and removes her hijab and puts on a cross that she keeps at school. Or suppose she has a boyfriend. Should the school inform the parents? May the school inform the parents? Suppose it does, even though she begs it not to, and they end up doing something to her, is the school liable?
You are sick. Of course, every time this tr@ns stuff comes up your true colors start to show.
The school has absolutely NO RIGHT to keep anything about the child secret from the parents. If the kid wants to be called by a different name then the school is absolutely required to inform the parents (not a nickname but some different name).
The school has no special relationship with the child that supersedes the parents’ relationship. NONE. This is just normal common sense.
All completely stupid examples. Yes, the school is bound to inform the parents when it is something the school knows about. Schools generally don’t know who is dating whom but if they know then they should certainly tell the parents at the parent-teacher meeting, or sooner if the school thinks it is something the parents would want to know.
It is not the school’s place to decide if the parents are a danger to the child. You seem to not understand that children are under their parents and no one else. The school and the demented sex-pervert teachers are not special friends to the 15 year olds. To imply that they are is to be a demented pervert and to aid and abet the worst mass crime to have ever taken place (and still be taking place) in American society.
The student has a mental health issue. Rather than informing the parents, the school personnel are indulging her behind her parents back.
The issue of “transitioning” is utterly different than whether or not a child is interested in some cultural or religious topic that may not be approved of at home.
Gender dysphoria is a life-altering mental illness in exactly the same way anorexia nervosa is, and a child that exhibits this tendency is in critical need of medical, psychiatric and parental intervention.
Yep b/c in the instances that Jenny/Guinivere has split personality or has fantasies that Jenny is unworthy of love but her alter ego Guinivere is popular b/c she allows the football team to run a train on her or uses drugs or whatever else including feigning Trans in search of a clique to accept them …that’s something the Parents should know about.
The school should always tell the Parents about anything that comes to their attention about the child in their care. Same way a baby sitter should. Good, bad, ugly, disturbing, whatever. That keeps everyone accountable. If the school has direct evidence of abuse they should call CPS who are charged with evaluating Parents and/or the Police to investigate a criminal act.
The difference Milhouse is that children confused about their gender can have a couple of things going on. One is that they have gender dysphoria and need help, another is they are going through a phase a lot of kids do just before puberty and well over 80% become comfortable with their birth gender if left alone. So this is not like being curious about other religions that might get the kid in trouble at home this is about early signs of mental issues that the parents have every right to know about.
I’ve been following the comments of Milhouse here for while, and they reveal a Contrarian mindset that will reflexively argue against common sense most of the time. Contrarians make themselves feel more significant by being different, even if this forces them to adopt ridiculous conclusions. That’s not to say they can’t occasionally be right, after all, a broken clock is accurate at least twice a day!
Of course you are on the wrong side of this and every issue Mildew…. You are truly ignorant of what this is really about…..
lol
… according to the research about 95% of children who express gender confusion and nothing is done… no social transition or any medical procedures resolve in mid to late teens and identify with their natal sex…. Now if they can grab them at an early enough age and social transition them this natural resolution does not happen and the majority remain confused and struggle with a multitude of mental health issues going forward….so you in essence are arguing that schools can help in the creation of lifelong mental health issues of their students with impunity…. Cause (checks notes) … librarians have books they control…btw how frickin old are you?….schools with actual physical libraries yet alone librarians
Your logic and the deep thinking you pretend you are engaging in… well it’s about as deep as a drying puddle.., just like you.
Schools should be academic resources for parents to use…not social resources. Period.
Sometimes what you truly are just boils out from behind that mask you think hides you.
And where are your sycophants? Burbling out to tell us how right and intelligent all your excretions are?
Come, Democrat, call me ‘liar’ some more if it make the abyss where your soul should be ache just a bit less, it will not help you.
All see you for what you are.
Azathoth, the demon from Hell, keeps lying and slandering and being his usual filthy disgusting and utterly worthless self. He has never contributed anything of any use here, and probably anywhere else. He seems to exist only to torment me. Go back to Hell, quickly.
Disengenuous argument, ripe for Reducio ad Absurdum. If my daughter announces at school that she wants to be referred to as Joan of Arc, then this would be a sign of a major mental disturbance, and if the school withheld that information then they would be damaging my daughter by depriving her responsible guardians of knowledge of her medical condition. Data shows that psychosis and gender dysphoria are major risk factors for suicide. Refusing to reveal such a risk factor increases the probability of a bad outcome, and I seriously doubt that School Boards Guidance Counselors have the medical expertise to determine which risk factors can be ignored.
How, then, would one expect them to react upon discovering that only was their child being socially transitioned, but that the school district was actively concealing the fact from the parents?
I guess we don’t need to imagine that one…
The issue is trust in our nation’s institutions. When they openly and wantonly betray that trust where children are concerned, thry deserve to have the sky fall on them.
So sick
It all started with the decriminalization of buggery. It then went from distasteful tolerance, to worship, to active indoctrination. There is an angry God.
Decades ago Bob Hope said ‘California just made homosexuality legal. I’m leaving before they make it mandatory.’
This is all just totally deranged lunacy. The First Circuit is a clown car of a court and should be dissolved. It is a joke – a sick, twisted joke.
Just the idea that 12 year olds can give consent, and consent OVER their parents to the sex offender teachers and administration. Just crazy. All of the faculty and administration and school board at that school and district who participated in this inanity need to be arrested and tried for the most serious and despicable crimes against children. It is sick.
So many people in this society – people in very powerful positions like the federal bench of the First Circuit – are deranged perverts who belong in prison. Sick people who would not have been allowed to roam free just 20 years ago. These people cannot be allowed to get away with this. These are some of the sickest monsters ever to walk this Earth. Preying on the most vulnerable with their truly demented perverted desires. They must be made to publicly acknowledge what sick, deranged monsters they are and how they do not deserve to live in any civilized society.
Folks, for almost all of history homeschooling was the norm. It’s public schools that are the experiment and that experiment has failed *miserably*. I am 100% in favor of doing away with them altogether. We have cities in which no student is learning. Why are we wasting money trying to educate those who cannot or choose not to learn? As to a school usurping something as fundamental and utterly outside of their scope as *anything* to do with sex… Let’s just say that I pulled my children out of our once excellent public schools for much less.
Yes…get your kids out of public schools. Immediately and I don’t care how small your town is. Get them out.
We have so many terrible judges in this country
So many left wing activists and progressive social engineers posing as “judges” and legislating from the bench…making laws and rules outside the correct and Constitutional processes.
Most are in their positions thanks to democrats.
IMO the only way this decision can make sense is if it has been decided that parents do not have the right to make informed medical and mental-health care decisions for the child. That is because failure to disclose the gender preference issue to the parents materially interferes with their knowing what the “playing field” is in their care of the child.
Are you really sure you want to hold that position? Because I’m going to tell you right now that if that’s the position you hold you’re also holding the position that school officials will get the living crap beat out of them when the parents find out
This is an abomination. Parental rights are fundamental rights, If the parents are unfit the child(ren) should be removed by the state. You don’t go behind their backs while still maintaining the responsibilities of the parents.
The judges should be impeached. The involvement of the state AGs in this case should be spammed when next they run for election. The donors to the ACLU should be listed and any companies subject to boycotts.
Enough is enough.
“If not for that one brave teacher—later fired for coming forward—according to the court filings, the parents might never have known:”
Thank God for that one teacher, putting the childs needs first.
This pretty much is what should be expected from the First Circuit.
The First is the new Ninth?
This is the power our totalitarian government schools have by design. Filing a lawsuit is a waste of time and money. Get the child out.
I don’t understand why the commenters here don’t understand this.
Way past time to drop the bullsh*t honorific “Honor” for the legal profession.
This court needs to be body slammed by the Supreme Court. Parental rights are not and have never been a positive right. It has for time immemorial been a natural right. The court cannot take away our natural rights.
Changing of pronouns and restrooms could be considered an emotional health issue that goes to the core of the child’s identity. Its not unreasonable for a teacher to make note of that and mention to parents. Its up to the parents to determine if their child is having an identity crisis and how to handle it.
SCOTUS needs to clarify the “privacy rights” of children in schools, whatever that means. I’m guessing that SCOTUS would find a way to strengthen parental rights.
I don’t understand this ruling. Since the school is demanding parental rights, shouldn’t they be required to accept parental responsibilities? Shouldn’t they be at least contributing to the support of the child? Pay for their after school activities? Maybe start a college fund? What are parents? ATMs for independent agents? I am confused.