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Always Fight With Love: Lessons from Martin Luther King, Jr.

Always Fight With Love: Lessons from Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Hate at any point is a cancer that gnaws away at the very vital center of your life and your existence”

Of everything Dr. King said or wrote, this is easily my favorite. Scarcely does there arise a situation where Love’s message does not apply.

Particularly in a time — during a year, of heightened contentiousness and rank discourse, Dr. King’s words are exceedingly salient.

Writing from jail in Birmingham, Alabama, King wrote:

“We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly.”

Though we gravitate towards rhetoric that holds two versions of America (an idea that is most certainly true), also true is that our destiny as a country is bound to that of the other.

Dr. King helped organized and plan the Montgomery bus boycott. Rather than lambast the opposition, King had this to say:

“Let us fight passionately and unrelentingly to the goals of justice. Let’s be sure that our hands are clean. Let us never fight with falsehood and violence and hate and malice, but always fight with love so that when the day comes and the walls of segregation are completely crumbled in Montgomery, we will be able to live with people as brothers.”

In Montgomery, Alabama, on 17 November 1957, Dr. King delivered his “Loving Your Enemies” sermon at Dexter Avenue Baptist Church.

“Love is the only creative, redemptive, transforming, power in the universe,” he said:

…There’s another reason why you should love your enemies, and that is because hate distorts the personality of the hater…. You just begin hating somebody, and you will begin to do irrational things. You can’t see straight when you hate. You can’t walk straight when you hate. You can’t stand upright. Your vision is distorted. There is nothing more tragic than to see an individual whose heart is filled with hate…. For the person who hates, the beautiful becomes ugly and the ugly becomes beautiful. For the person who hates, the good becomes bad and the bad becomes good. For the person who hates, the true becomes false and the false becomes true. That’s what hate does. You can’t see right. The symbol of objectivity is lost. Hate destroys the very structure of the personality of the hater.

…meet every situation of life with an abounding love. Never hate, because it ends up in tragic, neurotic responses…. Hate at any point is a cancer that gnaws away at the very vital center of your life and your existence. It is like eroding acid that eats away the best and the objective center of your life. So Jesus says love, because hate destroys the hater as well as the hated.

…Now there is a final reason I think that Jesus says, “Love your enemies.” It is this: that love has within it a redemptive power. And there is a power there that eventually transforms individuals. That’s why Jesus says, “Love your enemies.” Because if you hate your enemies, you have no way to redeem and to transform your enemies. But if you love your enemies, you will discover that at the very root of love is the power of redemption. You just keep loving people and keep loving them, even though they’re mistreating you. Here’s the person who is a neighbor, and this person is doing something wrong to you and all of that. Just keep being friendly to that person. Keep loving them. Don’t do anything to embarrass them. Just keep loving them, and they can’t stand it too long. Oh, they react in many ways in the beginning. They react with bitterness because they’re mad because you love them like that. They react with guilt feelings, and sometimes they’ll hate you a little more at that transition period, but just keep loving them. And by the power of your love they will break down under the load. That’s love, you see. It is redemptive, and this is why Jesus says love. There’s something about love that builds up and is creative. There is something about hate that tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies.

…So this morning, as I look into your eyes, and into the eyes of all of my brothers in Alabama and all over America and over the world, I say to you, “I love you. I would rather die than hate you.” And I’m foolish enough to believe that through the power of this love somewhere, men of the most recalcitrant bent will be transformed. And then we will be in God’s kingdom. We will be able to matriculate into the university of eternal life because we had the power to love our enemies, to bless those persons that cursed us, to even decide to be good to those persons who hated us, and we even prayed for those persons who despitefully used us.

The entire sermon is here.

In all you do, in every way, may you find the grace to choose love.

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Reading Dr. King’s words, I can’t help but wonder how things might be different now, if Barack Obama’s pastor had been Dr. King, and not Jeremiah ‘God Damn America’ Wright.

Ahh, who am I kidding. A leopard can’t change its spots.

    legacyrepublican in reply to rinardman. | January 18, 2016 at 10:12 pm

    In this case, a hyena can’t change its laugh. Or, maybe, a cobra can’t change its hood.

    Valerie in reply to rinardman. | January 18, 2016 at 11:54 pm

    Surely Obama had a choice among pastors.

    Vascaino in reply to rinardman. | January 19, 2016 at 8:50 am

    I think that after inbibing from the madrassa in Indonesia as Barry Sortoro,
    having Dr. King as his pastor would have created mind numbing cognitive dissonance.

    Skookum in reply to rinardman. | January 19, 2016 at 11:24 pm

    You truly believe Barry Soetoro (or whoever he is) would have learned a healthy world view at the feet of the plagiarizing communist, philandering whoremonger, woman-beating non-Rev. non-Dr. Michael King? If so, you are ignorant of history, cucking for progressive anti-Americanism, or both.

      JackRussellTerrierist in reply to Skookum. | January 20, 2016 at 3:41 am

      You’re the only one posting on this thread until now who didn’t drink the Kool-Aid.

      King was a fraud.

How completely opposite and life giving are MLK’s Scripture references compared to the murderous words of the Koran, compared to the hate-filled words of Louis Farrakhan and compared to “f*** you” words of identity politics.

Our pres. has set back race relations back 50 years. Our current leaders are mis-quoting famous leaders on purpose to change the meanings of what they really were for in this developing Country. I was glad to see videos of MLK speeches, because Oblamo couldn’t distort the message.Our pres. has tried to separate ALL peoples and turn them against each other, for CONTROL. Many, don’t see it.