Could Stay-at-Home Parents Soon Receive Federal Payments?
At a time when Democrats are hammering Republicans on the affordability crisis, this plan would allow GOP candidates to point to a concrete measure the party is taking to address it.
The New York Times may have finally met a federal entitlement it doesn’t like.
Sources familiar with the discussions told the Times that the White House is drafting a plan to make married couples with a stay-at-home parent eligible for child care subsidies. The payments would come from the Child Care and Development Fund, a federal program established in the 1990s to help low-income parents pay for child care while they worked or attended school.
The government currently provides annual childcare subsidies of $9,000 per child to eligible families, but these payments go directly to childcare providers. Under the proposed plan, instead of paying a childcare provider so a parent can work, payments would go directly to stay-at-home parents.
According to a draft document viewed by the Times, the proposal “creates the option for a new category of care, parent-based child care, that will allow one married parent to receive C.C.D.F. assistance to care for their own child, while a spouse works at least 35 hours per week.”
Once the new rule is approved by the White House, it “would be posted online for public comment. If it is finalized, it could go into effect as soon as next year.”
A couple must be married to be eligible for the benefit.
Additionally:
To qualify, parents must prove that their income is lower than 85 percent of their state’s median income and that they are working, in school or receiving job training. Some states set a lower threshold of 60 percent of the state’s median income.
Under the draft, a married couple in certain income brackets could use that assistance for “parent-based childcare,” meaning one spouse stays home while the other works at least 35 hours a week.
This rule change does not require congressional approval.
Although the White House may be pursuing this rule change now because the midterm elections are rapidly approaching — and the timing may well be politically motivated — the policy itself has long been a priority for Vice President JD Vance.
In 2021, when then-President Joe Biden proposed universal free preschool for all 3- and 4-year-olds, and subsidized child care for younger children of eligible families, Vance noted in a Wall Street Journal op-ed, “Young children are clearly happier and healthier when they spend the day at home with a parent.”
He criticized Biden’s plan to spend an additional $225 billion on child care, “on top of the $40 billion the administration is already spending as part of the ‘bailout’ of child-care providers in Mr. Biden’s American Rescue Plan, and the $10.3 billion the federal government normally spends on child-care subsidies.”
[The administration’s proposed payments would be drawn from the latter program — the federal child care subsidy fund — which has since grown to $12 billion.]
In a Twitter post at that time, he wrote, “It turns out that normal Americans care more about their families than their jobs, and want a family policy that doesn’t shunt their kids into crap daycare so they can enjoy more ‘freedom’ in the paid labor force.”
"Universal child care" is a massive subsidy to the lifestyle preferences of the affluent over the preferences of the middle and working class. pic.twitter.com/SwzolxORFf
— JD Vance (@JDVance) April 29, 2021
The White House’s motivation for the proposed rule change appears to be twofold. First, with the midterm elections less than two months away, the administration is under pressure to demonstrate that it is helping families absorb the rising cost of living. The war with Iran has sent oil and gasoline prices sharply higher, adding another strain to household budgets just as Democrats are making affordability a central campaign issue. By offering families up to $9,000 per child annually, the administration could provide Republican candidates with a tangible example of an effort to ease that burden.
The second objective is more ideological: The Trump administration hopes to restore the traditional family to a more prominent place in American public policy. For decades, federal child care assistance has largely been structured around helping parents remain in — or return to — the workforce. The proposed change would broaden that definition of support by recognizing the work performed inside the home. It would treat a parent who forgoes a paycheck to stay home with children as a caregiver whose contribution has economic and social value.
The policy reflects the administration’s desire to encourage marriage and make it more financially feasible for families to live on one income while their children are young. It does not require mothers — or fathers — to leave the workforce; it merely eases the financial burden on those who opt to stay home. For some families, it could even make the difference between needing two incomes and being able to afford for one parent to remain at home.
It clearly elevates a family model: a married couple in which one parent — often the mother — remains home to care for the children while the other works. In that sense, the proposal is about more than child care. It represents an effort to use federal policy to affirm marriage, parenthood, and family life as institutions worthy of government support.
🚨 BREAKING: The Trump administration is reportedly drafting a plan pushed by JD Vance to give federal child care funds to married couples with a STAY-AT-HOME SPOUSE while the other parent works — NYT
The program could be $9K per year for these families
The goal: make it easier… pic.twitter.com/Wi5eEO8Urv
— Eric Daugherty (@EricLDaugh) September 5, 2026
The Times article took a decidedly skeptical view of the proposal, which is somewhat striking given the Left’s traditional support for expanding government assistance to families. First, the author questioned the “legality of requiring recipients to be married.”
Next, she emphasized that this concept was outlined in the much maligned Project 2025, the conservative blueprint published by the Heritage Foundation ahead of the 2024 election, which states: “Instead of providing universal day care, funding should go to parents either to offset the cost of staying home with a child or to pay for familial, in-home child care.”
Finally, she used a straw man argument to knock the proposal, noting that “some have also raised concerns about whether the change could increase the risk of fraud, since the money would be going to individuals rather than businesses.” This concern rings especially hollow, considering the extraordinary lengths Democrats have gone to conceal fraud in other government programs. Also, the possibility of fraud is inherent in virtually every large government-benefit program.
But what may bother critics the most is that voters may actually like this idea. At a time when Democrats are hammering Republicans on the affordability crisis, this plan would allow GOP candidates to point to a concrete measure the party is taking to address it.
They want to pay parents to raise their own kids.
Trump and JD Vance are drafting a plan so a married couple can get real help when one spouse stays home and the other works.
Not more daycare bureaucracy.
Not another industry living off single-mom subsidies.
Actual support for… pic.twitter.com/kDZU7n1gVv— Chosen People (@ChosenPeopleVIP) September 6, 2026
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Well intentioned but NO!
Instead reform the existing support programs to REQUIRE marriage. Want a child dependent deduction? Child tax credit? WIC? EBT? Sec-8? No problem, require the Mother to get married to the Father of the child and the Father to marry the Mother. IOW State enforced shotgun marriage at worst and intact happy families at best. If more than one baby daddy or baby momma …sucks to be you b/c your options are all or none and one gets you bigamy charges while the other gets you $0. Put the children up for adoption if you are financially irresponsible. Put the Mom and the Dad of such children on child support to provide for the children they irresponsibly crested and were unable/unwilling to provide a healthy home to.
100%
Let’s end current social program fraud before opening up new transfer payment fraud angles.
I’m not so sure it is well-intentioned. It creates yet another dependent class.
So any reasons not to like this.
Government welfare grows government and increases dependency. It is a bad thing, even if it goes to people you like. What they need to do is REPEAL all the laws, regulations, and (especially!) taxes that practically force both parents to work just to stay afloat.
Plus… once the hostile press manages to remember this Nazi program, the GOP will have viel Ei on their faces.
Much more difficult a climb than that. Our entire culture/society has created different financial expectations that will be very hard to reverse. Frankly I don’t see it happening b/c I don’t see a realistic path to do so ….other than ending the notion of Uncle Sugar as a backstop/financial supporter of people’s poor choices to include family court. Transform ‘no fault’ divorce into an annulment to preclude any financial obligation. Require sale of marital home to create a divisible asset. Set the presumption of custody at 50/50 no child support and requiring co parenting decisions about the child. End alimony other than in cases of a traditional reason for divorce buy set it to end NLT 36 months. Do all this and marriage rates will climb, divorce rates will fall and families will form and stay together due to incentives.
Age of 1st marriage in 1960 for Men was about 55% of them had 1st marriage between age 20-24 and the share of Men married before 20 was 18%. While share at age 30+ was 11%. For Women 1st marriage in 1960 about 16% were under 18 and only 6% were above age 30. The remaining 78% of female 1st marriages from age 19-29.
Today the average age 1st marriage is 30+. In 2018 the share of Men age 30+ for 1st marriage is 49%. For Women the share age 30+ was 40% for 1st marriage.
Now translate that shift to housing supply. If age 30 is the norm then folks need separate apartments/homes for a dozen years after HS graduation. That puts a strain on supply, increases prices. Add the impact of unfettered immigration since the mid ’60s on housing supply.
Obviously if these folks have separate housing they got separate utilities, grocery bills, internet/phone plan and separate transportation/vehicles …which means jobs to earn income to pay for those …which means an increase in labor supply, which almost certainly contributed to wage stagnation ….which means folks can’t accumulate the capital to fund a down payment as easily as prior generations …and that shows up in the age of 1st home purchase which is now 40+ for the first time.
I agree with all of the above. This would require a reversion to 1930s-1950s mores and ethics. This would largely be a good thing.
Many men are putting on their green eye-shade and sharpening their pencils. They are doing the math, and seeing what has happened to the men in their circle who married, then got cleaned out in family court.
I have no solution for this. Even back in the days before realizing I “played for the other team” I saw marriage as something so dangerous I wanted no part of it.
The only realistic path towards a.solution is to rearrange the incentives. As you pointed out many Men are concluding that in marriage the math ain’t mathing. So long as there’s a huge safety net for one party to walk out on the other party …and to potentially gain financially in doing so then it won’t stop. Family formation will further stagnate, older age of marriage will produce fewer children.
Beyond this there’s the follow on impact to the economy. Consider a younger Man who’s decided in marriage the ‘juice isn’t worth the squeeze’. The impact goes beyond him. Men used to be motivated to work extra shifts/overtime to save up for marriage/1st home purchase and to provide for their growing Family. This young Man doesn’t have that same motivation. He declines extra hours at work in favor of his own time off. Productivity declines. Employer gotta hire another worker adding significant costs or the remaining married workers gotta pull those hours. Bottom line is the old way of the single dudes working Christmas so the married guys could take off to spend time with their kids is ending. Extrapolate that little example across the society and it becomes a different world.
Hey let’s do socialism because it’s en vogue. This admin is losing me pretty fast.
It’s almost as if the Republicans are trying to buy votes like the Democrats do.
Oh hell no
Just hell no
I should NOT have to pay for someone to stay home with their child
My taxes are high enough
Mathis is insanity and socialism
Guess what? I worked weekends 12-16 hour shifts and my husband worked M-F , we sacrificed to raise our children
Nobody paid for anything but us
I wil be very upset if this becomes a reality
Mom calling all my representatives
This is election Vote NS
x2
Ya all make sure you call and wrote your representatives
This dog don’t hunt
Another government program that would start off innocuously enough at first and then grow and grow as more and more politicians modify it to buy votes? Never mind presenting new opportunities for fraud. No thank you.
Bingo
No. Just… no. I am already held at gunpoint to feed and clothe welfare queens. Now I am expected to subsidize everyone with children/
My modest proposal: cut, slash, burn, shred, and excise most government programs. Reduce our tax burden. Cut regulations that make a $30,00o car cost $45,000. Cut regulations that add tens of thousands to the price of a home to save two thousand in energy costs over the life of the structure. Kick the able-bodies off welfare.
In my living memory one income provided a roof over one’s head, savings, college money, vacations, and a luxury or two. It can happen again.
I suspect we are on the cusp of being asked to ‘pay for’ lots of financially imprudent folks who chose not to marry or if married chose divorce and either had few/no children or alienated the children they did have.
Lots more of these sorts in ‘retirement’ than we wish. They ‘lived their life to the fullest’ sought experiences, took lots of vacations, cruises, traveled, lots of conspicuous consumption, little savings and less thrift. These ‘grasshoppers’ are already demanding that SSA be saved by others. When the reality hits for some of them that their lack of thrift and financially irresponsible lifestyles has doomed them to an existence one step away from the poor house …the screeching will be deafening. I am wholly unwilling to underwrite anyone’s irresponsible lifestyle/behavior much less ‘demands’ that I should/must hand over my own savings to them. Let them read the ‘Little Red Hen’ for some perspective.
“Under the proposed plan, instead of paying a childcare provider so a parent can work, payments would go directly to stay-at-home parents.”
And that comes with absolutely zero unintended consequences, like ‘Quality Learing Center’ fraud.
And you get a check, and you get a check, and you get a check. Tell ’em, Oprah.
All kidding aside, lefties can’t even define ‘what is a woman’, so any lefty judge will strangle this ruling at birth because they will not define ‘what is a married couple?’ Blah, blah.
“The Times article took a decidedly skeptical view of the proposal, which is somewhat striking given the Left’s traditional support for expanding government assistance to families.”
Despite what is bound to be conservatives’ aversion to the White House’s, plan, the Times’ hypocritical stance here is indeed striking but isn’t surprising. “Left? Good.” “Right? Bad.” Its Trump Derangement Syndrome prevents it from supporting what it otherwise would.
Simply explained: government money would be flowing to normies instead of freaks, so the NYT is naturally against it.
Someone needs to point out the article in the Constitution that authorizes the Federal Government to appropriate money from citizens to pay for child care of any sort.
Apparently the Republicans being the party of restrained, responsible government and discouraging dependence is a thing of the past (honestly, I’m not sure it was ever a thing, even in the past).
Expanding programs that should be abolished is not a good thing regardless of the party proposing it.
“Someone needs to point out the article in the Constitution that authorizes the Federal Government to appropriate money from citizens to pay for child care of any sort.”
Now do healthcare, education, disaster relief, old-age pensions…
Agreed. I was just trying to keep my comment focused on the topic at hand.
I guess we are all s’posed to Dems now: Paying people NOT to work.
If Vance is pushing this, not to mention his refusal to dump Phucker Tucker, he has lost my vote.
He DOES seem to be “testing boundaries”. Let’s see who ends up running. I am likely going toward Rubio even though he upset me in the past.
Cruz can’t run (Canadian-born I believe), but I’d like to see him on the Supreme Court.
Update from a JustTheNews story about this stupid proposal…
“We’re going to defeat socialism by giving you a stake in the American dream and that’s how we’re going to win the future. Our goal is to reverse a concensus that has screwed over communities like this one for decades,” Vance concluded.
Defeat socialism by promoting and funding it. ~sigh~
(Btw, Cruz’s mom was an American citizen. The precedent was set by McCain, who was born in Panama but was able to run for pres in ‘08)
This rule change seems to be contrary to the legal intent of the program. The purpose is to allow 2 parent couples to both work. I could see allowing older siblings to get the payments to babysit, and perhaps other relatives, but not the stay at home parent.
Yes, but I suspect the executive has some power to reinterpret the program. It’s not so much different than changing DOGE from the lapdog it previously was into attack-dog auditors.
I certainly hope not. We should be trying to pay down the debt not engaging in more socialism.
I regret I couldn’t give you more than one up-tick.
Pay down the $40+ Trillion National Debt? That’s just the on the books amount and excludes all sorts of unfunded/underfunded liabilities. It would be nice to get a balanced budget but we’re sitting with a GoP HoR, Senate and WH and still spending about $2 Trillion more than revenue annually. If the party which calls itself in favor of limited gov’t has control but refuses to act …I don’t see it happening. Not until enough folks wake up and refuse to buy Federal bonds/bills/notes that lack a significant premium. A few Central Banks are reducing holdings so the trickle has only begun. The flood will take some time.
From that perspective …if were gonna spend like drunken sailors anyway why not shift spending priorities to areas and recipients who we embrace? Doesn’t mean I agree with a new program but I can see the logic within context.
No.
No.
No.
Hmm a downvote? Maybe there weren’t enough “no”s in this … we don’t need another well intentioned but soon out of control social program rife with fraud and unintended consequences
Vance should know better but doesn’t
It may be Vance at the podium but make no mistake here …Trump is POTUS and any/every policy that his Admin proposes has his approval. Trump is the unitary executive and the buck stops with him. Nothing Vance, Rubio or anyone else at that level in the Trump Admin propose publicly as policy lacks Trump’s buy in and approval.
No. Get rid of the income tax and downsize the government appropriately.
This country is imploding driven by its spending much of which is wasteful,
How about No.
Oh, please! Like we need more grubs and parasites in this country, not to mention more incentives for ILLEGAL ALIENS to drop a load on this side of the border. Stop with the leftist ploys. It’s bad enough the Pussy Party, aka, Republicans, are feckless, useless, ineffective and good for nothing. I guess they know it, and this is all they have. God, help us!
The answer is lower taxes at all levels n grow the economy n remove illegal invaders, Not maintain nor increase welfare. Jdv so not ready for prime time.
https://www.americanthinker.com/blog/2026/09/the-government-got-into-the-bedroom-with-the-war-on-poverty-can-it-get-out/